01 September 2017
Feelings don’t fade over time in any relationship, they just become harder to see, simply because of the monotony of said relationship.
Everyone loves the honeymoon phase of the relationship, but real relationship begins at the end of the comfort zone. Remember that.
Because the longer you are in a relationship, the longer you have known your partner, you can’t help but falling deeper into routine.
And admit it, our mind is usually sick of routines. Dealing with the same things over and over again can be tiring to some extent.
Another reason to why you think your feelings are fading away is because you can’t seem to accept all their flaws and imperfections.
You fell in love with the idea of them, not them. You expected them to be this someone and they failed to be that. That’s how you got bored.
And maybe you thought the feelings are fading away because what you have for them isn’t really love, but merely an infatuation.
Thus, when our short-lived passion or admiration to them is over, we stop doing things we did for them at the beginning of the relationship.
If the infatuation is gone and you still care deeply for your partner, then it’s love. Remember, love grows when it’s real, it doesn’t die.
Adjust your expectations towards your partner, accept the fact that their quirks and idiocracies are parts that make them whole as a person.
Never stop doing the things you did for each other in the beginning of the relationship. Just keep on doing it and do it better each day.
The feelings you have for each other is still there, trust me. But you need to look harder for it. And look for it with open hearts.
Here is one thing I learned from my parents: if the feelings are fading away, then it isn’t true love. So, is your love true enough?
Love is beautiful if you love each other the right way at the right time. Never give up on each other if you still want to be together.
But your love was never true & you gave up on us.
